“I never imagined myself becoming a surrogate—until the idea quietly planted itself in my heart.”
It all started with a simple conversation. My husband’s aunt had been a surrogate years before, and the way she spoke about the experience stayed with me. She didn’t just talk about helping a family; she talked about connection, purpose, and joy. Something about it stirred something in me.
At the time, I was a young mom with a growing family of my own. I had started my family early, and while my husband carried the weight of financially supporting us, I had this strong desire to contribute, to feel like I was doing something meaningful, not just for us, but for someone else. I wanted to be home with my kids, present for all the little moments, and still be able to help support our household. Surrogacy felt like the perfect fit. The timing was right, and my heart was all in.
I also knew my body was capable. I’d had healthy pregnancies, I was still young, and I felt a deep sense of responsibility to use that gift while I could. If I could help someone else experience the joy of parenthood, why wouldn’t I?
The journey itself was filled with love and support from the very beginning. The agency walked me through every step—from the application, to matching with a family, to medical appointments and legal agreements. When I matched with the intended parents, something clicked. There was this deep emotional bond, this shared dream, and I felt genuinely connected to their story.
After a two-embryo transfer, we found out I was pregnant with twins. I’ll be honest—carrying twins was not easy. There were tough days, physically and emotionally. It was different than my previous pregnancies, more demanding on my body, and required even more focus on rest and care. But through it all, I kept coming back to why I was doing this. Every kick, every heartbeat—it was all leading to something beautiful.
And that moment came. The delivery was unforgettable. Watching the intended parents meet their babies for the first time was one of the most emotional and joyful experiences of my life. I had carried their miracle—and now, their arms were full. That moment made every challenge worth it.
Becoming a surrogate gave me so much more than I expected. I got to give the ultimate gift, stay home with my children, contribute to my family, and be part of something that truly mattered. Even through the hard days, I never once doubted the purpose behind it all.
If you’ve ever thought about becoming a surrogate, I encourage you to explore it. It will stretch you, yes—but it will also fill your heart in ways you never imagined.
